this is the fastest pregnancy I've known - it seems like minutes ago that you posted the happy news. FAB work on the spinach tart. before I read ellies suggestion to the ml fairy I was thinking how about you giving him a massage, starting off in a sort of non sexual manner. I realise giving out this sort of thing when you feel you are the one needing the pampers is a bit of an effort but perhaps worth a go, or perhaps talking about things you'd like to do can fire his desire.