J -
if he lokes to receive WOA, be very careful to recognize his AOS (like making that spinach tart) because he's looking for those WOA. Also - as a WOA person myself, I know that I'm not really into gifts - BUT gifts that are a form of WOA are VERY big with me (like the gold bracelet that says "sweetheart" in Hawaaiian that H gave me). Maybe the ticket surprise went over so well because SO saw it as a giant affirmation??

Ellie