Hmmm, a little girl called "Heart" or "H2H" or "2"?
Your "what if" question was a way of asking him about his dreams - allowing him to transcend his current environment, problems, issues, jobs, limitations etc. and go where his heart is. On the boat the other day, my crew got into an interesting discussion of what they'd do if they had been the one lucky bloke who won the $250 mega-million lottery last week. No one really talked about buying 'things' - they talked about travels, friends & family they would care for, and everyone talked about what job they would be doing. No one wanted to 'retire' - though most would change their current position.
How about a question about his beloved house in Vermont? What would he like to have done to the place in 5 years time?
I guess I'm thinking in terms of goals & dreams in various areas: Financial; Health/Fitness; Career; Recreation/Vacation; Family; Home(s); Spiritual. Do you know where S. wants to be, say in 5 - 10 years? I know he likes his current job, does he still want to be doing that a decade from now?
Well, that's about all I can come up with for now...
