Jennifer,
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My self-assigned homework this week is to come up with things that draw me away from S. - things I can say good-bye to. I feel I need to show him that I am willing to let things go, too, and it's not just him "compromising" himself and "losing" something.


You know, good things are going to come to you for this. You have your ups and downs but you consistently return to focus on what you can do, not on what S should do, or how T can help or any such thing. You step back a bit and make an effort to see things from S's view, and even if you make a mistake, you're trying and that speaks volumes.

Thank you,

K


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