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* S. is VERY reluctant to admit that there is ANYthing in that R that threatens ours.


Maybe there isn't. Maybe it's the IDEA of her which is the only thing there.
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* He said that my focus on her made him think about her "far more" than he would if I just let it be. (This is actually one of the very first things my DB coach Chuck said to me eons ago when I called for the first time. "Why would you purposefully make him think of her when he's with you? Stop bringing her up.")

Wise DB Coach Chuck. What if you just ceded all control and said, "Do what you want. It's your business"?
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But if the priority is to be together, then we must do it.


Wise T. Very, very wise T.

Can you send me her number?? (my icon for )

Thanks for your post on my thread. I really appreciate it.

-- Michele