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wants you to admire him, as if he's seeking affirmation of an essential part of him. Seems to me he wants you there, present and affirming.


As a male, who also likes my W to be there (would like, but don't ask for it)... this is *exactly* what I am looking for what I want her to be there.

Forgiveness is the release of all hope for a better past. – Alexa Young