This may sound corny, but has S ever looked at R websites. Fortunately, I'm sure he wouldn't be looking up Divorce Busting, but would something like Marriagebuilders.com be worthwhile for him--especially the Policy of Joint Agreement (you may want to look at it yourself).
I just get the sense that if he can start reading about other people and R's that sound so much like his own experperiences and perceptions, he may be more open and receptive to making changes in his own life. I'll bet at some level he may feel he's the only one experiencing what he is going through now and a bombardment of similar stories from others may give him a better intellectual grounding to be more solution oriented and have a better appreciation of how our actions impact our R's with others (Of course, he may in fact be the only man having a baby with a girl who is pursuing a divorce from the gay guy she married for reasons other than living the remainder of their days together ). But apart from the slight detour, is there merit here?
My ongoing prayers are with you--and H2H as well for good measure!
). But apart from the slight detour, is there merit here?
