Quote: Honestly, I've been the model of listening and validating lately (makes me wonder who's been slipping me the pills), and being careful not to put undue stress on S., and it's getting really hard to deal with my own stress (alone) while listening to S.'s (which is directed at me). Rant over.
Sigh, I remember feeling that way. It was too often for my liking. I wonder if some of what ails me now isn't a result of post-divorce nausea from stuffing all of it in for so long? For not being able to voice an opinion or feelings to the person who seemed to hurt me continually and the most often?
I tell ya, a steady diet of that is NOT good for a person. And if I were pregnant? I know I'd have been a sick pup. Actually, I was a sick pregnant pup, so I can't imagine doing it with R stress in it. My hat is off to you, friend.
Be nice to yourself, okay? And if S doesn't start being nice to you, my next plane trip will be to NY and I'll let the air out of my tires on him.
Big hugs!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
