exactly!!! It ends up being a total mindf***! I then end up staring at the ceiling and lose sleep because Im so mad at the lastest rejection.
The question I have is when do you (me) call it quits? I could pretend its ok and be patient but in reality Im hating my spouse for not working on us. Therefore its destroying the marriage anyway. How many times does one talk it out before giving up?
Hairdog I could not stop laughing and crying at the same time it's because the truth is so funny and hurts so darn much. "I'm not a dog" is the excuse for not doing it doggie style in our house. WTF
How about renaming "doggie style" to "getting behind"? That's most likely what the LDW is thinking anyway in this sitch, "I'm getting behind on my housework, my soap operas, my sitcom reruns, my sleep........
How about calling it "vertical spooning" or "VS" for short or "Victoria's Secret" in code? Most of the time spooning is done with both people lying down, but this is like spooning in a kneeling position.