GS, Sometimes the shackles on the mind are more often than not stronger than any physical/situational limitations. There are countless examples of athletes who have overcome disease, loss of limbs, accidents, you name it, to achieve thier goals. If a person has the right mindset, there is virtually nothing impossible. The other side of the coin is that people with a mindset of perpetual pessimism find it extremely difficult to achieve goals.
Being able to put aside daily life and enjoy the immediacy of sex takes a thought process that requires a focus on the now. It is extremely difficult for some LD to stop thinking of the consequences of not doing chore A, errand B, or fulfilling obligation C to enjoy connecting with their partner. The goal is to realize that chore A, errand B or obligation C are not all that important in the grand scheme of things. And even if they are that important, can't they wait a few hours?
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
