Not free at my house. I have to decide that I can live with the rejection of her saying no or even more, that I just want more sex or being made to feel that something is wrong with me for me wanting to have sex with my wife before I even bring it up. Then if I do bring it up or initiate, I might have to pay with the big arguement that ends in 'I am done with this conversation'. That is my real favorite.
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.
