Your H will be off in fantasy land at OW apt. with NO responsibilities. Let him experience all the things that you took care of in the home. I bet after a period of time, he would think twice about his complaints about your grocery choices and housekeeping. He needs a dose of REALITY. Just my opinion It looks like you are getting some excellent advice here
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According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."