Very tough call. Obviously I am in no position to make an educated recommendation. Only you can make that decision. I am proud of the way you seem to be handling it and seem ok with which ever way things work out. To me it seems he has nothing to complain about, you sure seem to be very helpful with his family sitch. My first reaction would tend to say plan A, but as I've said, only you can make that decision. Keep us posted and I'll chime in as able.
