Thank you, Imdi99....you brought tears to my eyes this morning. It has really been a long hard road and I have had many sruggles. They do get less and less and I can only hope that someday, (with a lot of patience) we can have the marriage we both want and need.

Thanks again..even if I havent heard it from my H yet, its nice to hear other people see how hard I have worked in this M!!