I am the husband of a bipolar woman and I am wondering if waiting for her to come back is a good idea. We've been married 28 yrs, sep about 4 mos this time....were sep 5 yrs ago when she had a similar episode. I believe she is manic and delusional about me. After the first sep, she came back and was severely depressed for 2 years...then attempted suicide. She had similar manic period last year but never left...after resuming meds, apologized again and became depressed and atttempted another suicide. How does mental illness change the playing field? I'm almost ready to view this impending divorce as a blessing. Help.