Wow, that last one was great. Think about it. My H is still involved with OW, yet he says he wants to get back together with me. If he really wanted that then he would actually DO it instead of saying it.
It's his character. Plain and simple. I probably always knew it, but thought it would change or it didn't effect me if he was nasty to other people. I've been in a really deep discussion with myself about character and choosing substance over flash "next time". If there ever is a next time. I want to take my time. Poor guy will probably feel like he's under a microscope. How does he treat dogs, children, old people...
Each experience in life has formed me, become part of me, made me stronger.