Quote: I don't have any advice really accept to do what others have said. Do things to raise your PMA. Have you ever went and got a massage? Feels great and is SO relaxing. The bath idea is great too. Or, if it looks like an evening with H is gonna tank.. do you have a friend you could call and go hang out with? Just say "H, if you're tired and not up to anything, I think I'll go hang out with XXXX for awhile. I have some energy to burn!" A drink and a good laugh with a friend might take your mind off what H is missing out on. And it is him that's missing the boat on this one!
Thats some good advice and I had to take it tonite!! All day H was sitting around watching football. So I suggested we hang out all night, drink beer and watch football. Well, instead he decided to call up some buddies and went out with them. AND, he wont come home until tomorrow!! So..when he was in shower getting ready, instead of sitting here and crying..I got all sexied up, looking "hot" if I might say, and H asked where I was going. First, I said, "oh, I thought I would go with you"..hee hee..then I said, "well, since you arent going to be home, Im going to go out to eat." Then he asked, "where are you going" and I said "why" and he said, "well, you are so dressed up" and I said, "well,I like to dress up and look nice" hee hee..im so evil...and at the time, I had really no plans!! (Thanks to 2 good friends, I got through this w/out a fight w/ H) H later asked me, "how come lately when I want to go to Ft Collins, you make me feel bad?" to which I replied, "I am sorry if I made you feel bad, honestly that was not my intention. I just get frutrated that none of my friends here want to go out and party and I still do. I dont mean to make you feel that way, I guess I just get jealous. Honestly, I wouldnt mind going with you up to Ft Collins every once in a while, just so I can go out. I dont think that is too much to ask". He had no comment, but it felt good to let him know how I felt. Before he left, he asked if I needed any money..hee hee, I said no.....(trying to be my independent self). When he said he was leaving, I went up to him, hugged him to death, and kissed his cheek AND his lips..and he kissed me back. Now, if I would have been thinking, I woulud have given him a REALLY GOOD KISS, instead of just a peck. Oh well, next time. Then I told him to drive safe, drink safe and see him tomorrow!!
OH---earlier, before he left, I said to him, "you should not drink so much and come home tonite" and he said why and I said, "so we can get naughty"...now seriously..how many wives say that!!! I bet his "single" friends he is going out with wouuld rather stay home with a woman that wants THAT, instead of going out with a bunch of college kids....BLECH!! Oh well, whatever, its his loss...
I am drinking a wine and going to leave an empyty beer bottle ...just to make my H curious..!!
A good friend asked me to a movie with her and her H, so at least I will get out of the house tonite..will be good for me..would really suck to have to sit home and think about H being out with bunch of college girls!!
