What happens when, instead of asking for a kiss, you just give one? Does he always turn away? And what happens when you just grab the goodies? Does he really say no to that too? I can't figure this guy out. There you are, ready, willing and able and he's turning you down.
You are cute and funny and nice....I think you need to just quit asking, quit persuing for a bit. Just back off with the words and just try actions instead. Get in bed and give him a kiss and roll over. No arm rubbing. No leg rubbing.
Instead of offering to give him a bath, take your glass of wine and some candles and go take a bath yourself, then just waft by him in your nightie and some great smelling scent, blow him a kiss and wander away. Maybe some nice music in the bathroom and leave the door open so all of that steamy fragrence and mood music waft around the house.
OK, well, you know it's been about a year for me, so I may be over the top, but I think it would be good for you even if he doesn't show up. Try something new and see what happens. Stop talking and just start wafting around the house all sexy and calm and content and let him wonder what the heck you're up to.
Each experience in life has formed me, become part of me, made me stronger.
