I guess after that post and since I am feeling so down today, I should try to post some positives to try and help me through the day....

1. H does turn his phone down so that it doesnt ring when we go out to eat and he wont answer it unless its important (thats one thing I asked of him a long time ago)
2. H has been very helpful at cleaning up the kitchen for me after we eat supper, because I have been saying how I feel like all I do all day is clean the kitchen!
3. H has been bringing up subjects and starting conversatins with me a lot more lately!