2much *huge hugs* I feel you girl. It's hard when the one thing you really want just isn't happening. Especially when it's the one thing that would help make you feel so much better. I have so many questions of why about it. And no answers. I guess we just have to be thankful for what they do give us and keep working towards getting what we really want.
But honestly, if you feel you two are at a good enough place is there anything wrong with saying "H, I notice that you do X, Y, and Z for me but you seem very withdrawn from doing A, B, C with me. Is there a reason? A, B, and C are very important to me because of D, E, F." Maybe he doesn't feel it's important and doesn't realize you do?
