I'm new here and read your whole thread. What a beautiful story! I hope I am on that road. H and I are still physically (but not legally) separated, and have been for about 3.5 wks. We are going to counselling weekly, and are going to Retrouvaille this weekend. He also will hug me but absolutely NOT kiss me on the lips. I was so glad to read that your H finally did that! Hurray!!!