2Much - sounds like a good couple of days for you. I'm glad. Don't stress about the party and how H will act with you. In the past, when he ignores you, what do you normally do? If it were me, I would probably start doing things to get him to pay me attention, things that directly involved him. Do a 180 and do something different. For me, I would start talking with every one else and act like I could careless because I'm having a great time. (actually come to think of it, I did do this, and XH was running all over the place trying to get my attention. Even asked later why I was ignoring him!) But also keep in mind, maybe he's nervous about the party too. But no matter what happens, try your best to have a good time and not let H ruin it for you. Stay happy!!!
