I started posting this once already and got interrupted and forgot to shut down screen and H came in and I assume read what I had written. Wasnt much yet, only the first positive I had typed which is going to be *H ran bath for me*. But I didnt know if it would bother H that I am still posting on here or not. He didnt say anything, but he might sometime later. I will just tell him Its where I go to help other people and also to keep myself in check so that things will never go back to the way they were.
Positives: * H ran bath for me last night * H asked me to go out to eat Wed night * H asked me to go to Denver w/ him friday nite to watch him play poker (cant bcuz of softball though) * H been uncluding me in decisions he makes and spending more quality time with me
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Journaling:
I have thinking about starting to ask H for some things that I NEED! The best way for me to figure out if its right is to try, right? Thats how I have learned everything else. If he gets defensive or starts to pull away, then I know its still too early to ask for what I want and need. I think the best way to go about it is to take the LL test and give H the results and give examples of some of the things I would want him to do w/ each top LL? What do you all think of that??
