I totally agree with KGBKK/Chapman have to say. For me I know my love for my wife is due to the choices I have made to love her. Too often I believe young people are taught fairly tail definitions of love. "You either have it or you don't". This only takes away all responsibility and accountability, and leaves it to fate. But as we either know or have learned, true love is a choice.
Hopefully our spouses will make a choice to love and improve what they have.
