Quote: I HATE being afraid to talk to my H about things like this.
I know exactly how you feel on this one. I'm so sorry that just when things were feeling better, this has to come up. But I think for your sake, you sould ask about the Vegas trip. But only if you are prepared to hear that he might be going, and going alone. I know this is hard. XH was recently asked to go to North Dakota for Thanksgiving. Just he and D9 were invited, not me or D10. And in the phone conversation I heard, he didn't turn down the offer. So I understand how you feel. Sometimes we have to suck it up and sometimes we have to hang it out there. Do what's best for you.