Hey 2much, I would say continue with what seems to be working. Like you said, if he did not pull back when this contact happened then take it as a positive. Maybe he will see it as a way to pull away from OW if he just not go. He might feel it is a way to prove to you where he is. I too fight the clingy tendencies. Some times it's all I can do not to grab her and ........, well we'll stop there.

Stay strong.