Quote: The more that you describe her the more I feel that she is psychologically traumatized in some way. You and the actions that you take play a very miniscule part in her reactions. She is reacting to the gremlin that she sees sneaking up behind you.
HD:
I think Karen might have something here, a gremlin sneakin up behind you or me.....that our W's are reacting to not us. A way to self-sooth ourselves, it's not really you or me in our respective sitches causing the hangups, its just that we're the ones trying to resolve the hangups so we can get on with our own agenda, ML to our W, or as I'm feeling right now, THE BITCH; excuse me for saying it but that is exactly how I am feeling right now.
So Karen, any ideas on how to slay the gremlin, because that is ultimately what we want to do? Waiting patiently for your answer.
Dont give up, don't give up. Keep trying, keep trying. I think I got it, I think I'm getting the shaft!
