Weber: I used to be very afraid of confronting her, for fear of making her angry. Now, my attitude is, "whatever...she'll be pissed at me for one reason or another. I'm not going to keep quiet and get resentful about it."
I do implement many of the ideas given to me by the SSM board. I no longer fear her rejection, because, well, heck, what's she gonna do? Divorce me? Short of that, I'm already about as rejected by her as anyone can get. Might as well touch that breast...what's she gonna do? Slap it away? Okay.
As Wayne Gretzky said: You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take.
Quote: It's the weekend, HD, do somehing for the both of you that she would like.
This is course, leads me to believe that you just don't "get" her, Weber. The only thing I could do that she would like is to leave her alone. And that, my friend, is not something I can do for "the both of you."
