Well, I'm assuming that MsDog didn't have any personal hangups at the beginning that caused her to shout inwardly "I don't want this feeling!" so why does it appear now?
I understand what happens from other viewpoints (the newness wears off, biochemical stuff fades, etc) but I was wondering how that factors into the Enneagram. Do the traits of the types of people kinda ebb and flow or do they remain constant? And if they remain constant, why the shift from "I want this feeling" to "I don't want this and I will freak if he tries to make me feel it"...?
