HD,
good luck getting her to read/listen to any of it. I find that if I try to get MrsGGB to look at anythng that even remotely stinks of sex/relationship she runs the other way. Kinda like trying to give a 2 year old a spoonful of castor oil.

If MrsHD is anything like MrsGGB, she'll only look at the stuff if it was her idea, and that isn't likely to happen unless she 'gets it'. I've given up on reading materials. Communication seems to be the only path there, and that has to be gentle enough to avoid being pushy, yet firm enough to move her along.