Weber: I really appreciate you taking the time to relate your story. I could definitely see myself doing the "brown paper bag" project.
I am interested in the Schnarch CDs. Were they just titled "Passionate Marriage" or was it "Secrets of a Passionate Marriage" ? I own the book, of course.
Could I get my W to listen to the lectures? Maybe. Maybe not. It's certainly worth a shot. The only shortcoming is that it's not a lecture by a woman, which would give it more credibility for my W.
Thanks for the recommendation, and thanks also to doglover.