I can understand what you're saying. I myself was a little hesitant to read it because it was from a religious perspective. I’m not religious at all and normally don’t like to read that sort of thing. But as for that review, that wasn’t at all what I got out of it (and the sex chapter is only a small part of the book). To me it explained that for men this was the one way women could truly let their men show their love for them and to give it back to them in a way they understood. I had never thought about it from that perspective before. I still think you should get it from the library and read it yourself to see. After reading it you may think it sounds nothing like you. (I do know that I showed the book to my XH and we actually had some really profound discussions because of some of the things in the book.) Either way, maybe once you get past this hurdle (and my fingers are crossed that you will) it might be something to think about again.
