I feel your pain HD. I know it has not been that long compared to others here, but I have been at it for 7 months and still not extra effort from my W. I asked her yesterday when she thought she might start working on the things she keeps telling me she needs to work on (sex and more affection with me). This started another arguement because she then started with all I wanted was for her to spread her legs more. I told her that I thought she had no idea about how important this was, and I feel she has no idea how much it hurts when she tells me she will work on it and then she does not. I finished with 'my biggest fear is that one day, I will not give a shi#'. Good luck Hairdog. Andy
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.