Well, we finally talked about a few things. Although the sex issue did not come up, some other very big things did. I told H how his constant negative attitude and his making snide remarks about me when he thinks its funny makes me feel. He said he was not aware he was doing that.................... cough cough....... We have had huge arguements about this in the past. I remained calm and stood my ground. Now he wants me to either call him on these things or write them down to tell him later........... Ok I will do that. We also talked about how he always looks and acts like he is mad at the world. Well I am not the only one who sees that, people he works with also see it, so he said he will try to take notice how he is.
He came down on me for a few things and I took responsibility for those things and will do my best to not do those things again. We actually talked for almost 2 hours about these things and I think maybe the lines of communication are opened. I will play it by ear on the sex issue and the ED problems. Feels good to be totally calm when talking to him and I think he saw this change. \
