Doglover

Thanks for your reply. All of the things you suggest have been addressed. H has had a heart bypass and is on alot of different meds, however, the ED problems started WAY before then. Viagra........ he tried that long time ago and said all it did was give him a horrible headache. Now, given the heart problems, he is not able to take any kind of med like that.

We talked a little yesterday about the dancing and he says he did not mean it to sound that way. We did talk a little about how he conveys things to me, and how it usually sounds like negativity. We didn't have much time to really talk, but we agreed to put some time aside this coming weekend to really talk ( without the friggin TV too ) We will see what happens after this talk.

I hate to be this way, but we have been here before. I get too frustrated with the situation, we have a serious talk, things improve for a matter of maybe 2 weeks, he says he will go back to the drs about the ED problems but never does. Then things go back to where they were before the talk. So we shall see what happens.

Annette