nicegal Re. to this post:My H will say that nothing would have worked until he chilled me out.
Thanks for the reply above. I guess I will have to do some more of the things you suggested. I have done most but can see where I need some modifications to what I say and not be as defensive or try to explain my position so much when BB tells me what I am/was she did not like. Kind of difficult to do when accused of doing some things for reasons she invented in her mind. I gusee I need to say "If that was the way you felt" more times instead of saying what my real motives were.
