Do know of a Chinese birthing chart that pretty accurately predicts the sex of your baby.
Yes...I heard about that one too. It sort of uses the mother's age and the month of conception. Correct? Unfortunately, it's of no use to me now... 1) Bad M sitch..2) Don't think I want to handle bottles and nappies now.
My H also waits to call until one or both kids are already in bed There are 1001 reasons I guessed. Either he really wants to speak to you or that the timing suits him. Whatever it is, you are right...keep whatever thoughts you have to yourself...
Journalling... Quite a yoyo-ing day... H texted this morning about some hoo-hah that was created because of his dinner with some guy last night. I texted back just to ACT "amused" by the incident. At about 1 pm, H called and said "I'll be back tomorrow, but I'll come and see the boys on Sunday". That means he is staying in the hotel?? And he'll come and see the boys on Sunday. I stayed calm and tried not to let the news affect me.
I texted him back "Let me know what time you want the boys. I can drop the boys off on Sunday. Maid's day off. Please don't let them know that you are back on Sat, and only seeing them on sunday. Don't want to answer difficult questions. Thanks". H texted back "Busy day tmrw...have to sort out my photos for visa application on monday. Also, have dinner n going away party tmrw night. Can be with boys on sunday. will sort out phone on monday too". I didn't reply to this message. Just let it be...
THEN, at about 2.45 pm. H called me....I was out lunchtime shopping at a mall (yup..yup..I know..some skiving there). Me: Hi! H: Hi! Am in a traffic jam...so, calling to chat with you. Where are you? Me: SP Mall.. H: What are you doing there? Me: Lunch..and some shopping.. H: Just calling to see how are you. Me: I'm fine. As good as one can be. H: I want to tell you...not to worry. Me: What is there to worry? I am going into the lift..line may be cut off. H: I just want to tell you not to worry about us. I will make things right. Me: ... Yeah I know it looks bad..HA HA HA (Actually I was responding to a coworker who was laughing at my shopping bags)...oh, sorry...talking to my coworker. Think line's gonna cut off... *LINE CUT OFF* GOt in the car with my coworkers... 5 minutes later. H called again. Me: Sorry...was in a lift. H: I just want to tell you to not worry about us. I will put things right. Me: ..mmm.. OK H: These few months ....just leave me as I am, okay? Me: Okay. As you wish. H: I will put things right. I have found a house near the International School. Me: You got a house already? You've seen it? H: Yes, I've seen it but haven't got it yet. Lease negotiation. I am already doing all things that will make things right, okay? The house is about 5 minutes drive from the school. Me: Okay. H: Talk to you later or tomorrow.. (My voice was not happy nor sad...I would say normal??)
So....I don't know what to make of this. Going to detach...not gonna let anything affect me. Not going to get overly excited. We'll see how things go in the weekend...
