Still Yoyo-ing About #2 ....

[WindyCityBeth]

I guessed it's okay to be DARK about myself but providing LIGHT when it comes to the boys?

Yoyo -

I struggle with this too. I am not initiating contact at all. He calls the kids at least once a day and we usually talk about how they are doing. He asks how I am and I am as vague as possible. Part of me wants to stay light for the kids but another part says he needs to step up in the dad role now. He has only done it part time for a while now. Oh, the psychobabble in my head continues...

Hey, I saw on another post somewhere (maybe mine? can't think straight tonight!)that you are giving H 5 months. Can I ask why that amount of time? Just curious...

WCB