I guessed it's okay to be DARK about myself but providing LIGHT when it comes to the boys?
I think that's a good idea. This will make H still feel like he's still involved with the family and on the other hand will have thoughts about what Yoyo is doing I know it's hard trying to not contact H but if this is what you are wanting to do it will get easier as the days go by, trust me. Although, it sounds as if H is doing a lot of contacting you.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years