KDK - Yes, perhaps I need to give him some time to settle down in his new surroundings. Then he will ponder what he wants to do. At the moment, things are kinda hectic for him...finding a more permanent place to stay, etc etc. Until things are settled down, I don't think he will be able to think about LIFE with us or with OW or whatever.
I was thinking ....if H decides to go the other way, and ask OW to go to Country X and she does....Mmmmm she MUST really love him to give up her BMW and her high-paying job to go and be with him.... Well, then really good for him. Alternatively, she could do the weekend hop to Country X to have her rendevous with H. Or H doing the weekend hop back here to meet her. I know...I know ..stop wasting energy on OW and H. Concentrate on myself... Yes yes...I will try.
Nothing much to journal since my last post as I didn't have any real contact with H. Called him last night but he didn't answer. He called back later, but was in a mall and was going "It's really noisy here. What? Can't hear you. Call you tmrw"...
