H has gone off to Country X. So, we are now really physically separated. Not legally yet...but physically. I think my new DBING ways must now be tailored for working on a spouse that lives across the seas....
Boys and I sent him to the airport. Had to say that I didn't adhere to my goals of NOT starting a fight before he leaves. We did have a short session of a "fight" in the car on the way to the airport. Again, he said "everything things are fine and you change so quickly...blah blah blah". To which I reacted very UN-DB-like. Anyway, things did settle down to a calmer note before we reach the airport. We had breakfast at the airport and then sent him off. H did call me before he boarded the plane, but I missed the call. I called him back and asked him what it was, and he said "Called you to tell you that I am boarding the plane NOW. I sent you a message to tell you so. Got to go. Got to go". The moment I put down the phone, sure enough, a text from H came that tells me he is boarding the plane now.
I went out lunch with some gal pals. Got a call (no ID as it's a foreign call?) at about noon. Picked up but couldn't hear anything. Later, another call with no ID ...it was H. He said that he called earlier but went to voice mail. Had a quick chat. Said that he got into the office fine. Got his company car (not what I wanted though...) and interviewed some hired help.
I had a day of pampering...went to a 3 hour spa pampering session... had a full body scrub, steam, full body massage, full body mask....bliss!!
Before I went to bed, did text H to wish him goodnight...He called back and we chatted for about 2 minutes. Talked further about his accommodation and the car, the traffic. Pleasant. Nothing heavy.....
