yoyo, well it seems as though H missed you. I agree it is so hard when they lie. I guess best just to let it wash over you. Mine is so pathetic at times, I feel like hugging him and saying "It's me, I know the truth, it's ok. Now cut the cr@p!". At a certain level, I think he lies to protect me. But then again, I overanalyse everything.
Maybe (now this is being a bit wicked) next time, H drops in something about OW, you could do a big yawn, then casually say "sorry, you were saying" and really downplay it. It would be hard to carry off, but worth it just to see the look on his face. A real 180.

Stay strong


Smile, it makes people wonder what you are up to!