YoYo - I don't know what to say to you. Your H seems to get some stupid pleasure in hurting you by mentioning OW all the time. It's like he knows it upsets you so he does it anyway. I am sorry I just don't get it. He is more of a Yoyo than you are. I love you in one breath and then OW bought me a wallet.....WTF.....You are doing very well to put up with all this, I think when H moves to other Country it will be a good thing for both of you as you can get your head straight and so can he....Hang in there....KDU
