Yoyo, don't really have any advice to give, just dropped by to see how things are going. I do agree with KDU to "act as if." Giving H the time and space will make him realize what he's missing....you and the boys.
Have a great time on your date!!
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years