Yoyo your H is showing positives so show some back. Make him realise he is leaving behind the best woman he could ever want. Be happy act "as if" and if it is true he is coming back every 2 weeks then it is like a business trip. Maybe when he next say "When we are seperated" you could say "I don't feel comfortable with that word when neither of us knows if it is true how about an indefinate break but still married. If he sees some interest from you re: your M maybe he will think different he seems to have given a lot of positives and maybe is scared you want to split, maybe this is him putting out the feelers. Don't want to steer you the wrong way but if you are subtle in your approach who knows....KDU