I have to agree with everyone else...you shouldn't run to H b/c HE doesn't want to be ALONE. In my sitch that's exactly the reason why H is with OW...he doesn't want to be alone, or like his godfather told me...he doesn't KNOW how to be alone with himself.
But otherwise it seems like you are getting a lot of positives. Who knows...maybe the few months H WILL be alone before you would even think of going over to country X will be enough alone time for him to really figure out what he wants and what his issues are....b/c right now he is still in the habit of giving a few mixed signals.
