Kismet, KDU - Thank you! Thank you! Think I needed the encouragement. I think I can see my sitch improving, but not wanting to be overly excited. On the whole, H is showing signs of coming to his senses. Yeah, he still talks about separation blah blah blah, but is at the same time talking about a future us. But overall, his mood has been quite good. No anger. Some jokes. Some assurance. I shouldn't let the negatives overshadow all the positives.
Last night, I did ask H if he would feel uneasy staying at home when he come back from Country X for visits. I said it would be difficult to explain to the boys. He said "he won't feel uneasy, but he would probably still want to stay at the hotel. And he said "Don't worry, she won't come and stay with me. We can tell the boys that dad is back here for work and you can come too". Oh well...so much of getting H to come back and stay at the house.
