yoyogirl, I don't think I have replied to any of your posts before. I just read your last few posts, and wanted to say that I think that you are going great. It really helps me when I am floundering to read others stories. Don't beat yourself up when you think you have made a mistakes as I think you have far more steps in the right direction. I really liked what you said to your H about how you are no longer willing to accept a loveless M just for your boys. You go girl! Those boys need to know that they have a strong mum, so they grow into happy well adjusted men who respect women. Hang in there
