Kim - Thanks. One thing that is bothering me...As H is leaving for Country X soon, I have repeatedly said that we should minimise contact between the two of us, and would communicate over the boys only. And when he comes back to visit the boys, he should stay in the hotel. Now, I think back. I think that was kinda stupid of me, isn't it? It's against DBING. H also asked "why? Don't you think that it would be good if I call and IM you when I am away? Don't you think that would help us in our situation?" Now, I think of it. Yeah...it would be in my favour isn't it? How stupid of me. I think I should remedy this sitch subtly before H goes off. Stupid Yoyo! Stupid Yoyo! Okay!!! I need to stop kicking myself and change tactics now...I think I should conform to the DBING techniques and not modify anything for the time being....
