Hi Yoyo...I wish things were as positive in my sitch as they are in yours. It sounds like H is really trying. I know you want to be 100 percent sure that he is committed to your M and OW is out of the picture. Really don't have any advice....sounds like your are doing a great job.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years